sailorzeo | Entries tagged with frustration

Sometimes I think I have way too much internal snark to effectively promote my shop. For instance, I’m currently trying to raise interest in the jellybean lip balms. I have them advertised as “seasonal limited editions.” “Only 10 sets available!” I keep advertising.

I’m so tempted to add on, “If you’re all trying to be polite and make sure everyone else who wants one gets one, stop! Be selfish! Buy now!”

At least the two people who were excited for them bought theirs the day they went live (Jessica actually bought the Spice ones while I was working on the Fruit listing!). Because seriously, if even they hadn't bought them, I'd be a lot more upset than I am.

(Plus I decided to keep a set of each for myself, because I didn't make overs of all the flavors, and I really liked that black licorice flavor)

Current Mood: amused

Seriously, for as much as I don't like math, I always seem to choose math-heavy hobbies.

I had enough mango butter for yesterday's two batches of soap (Intense Almond and Bergamot Chamomile), but now I have crumbs, which is derailing my "make lots and lots of soap OMG RIGHT NOW!!!!" desire. So I had to sit down and do math and figure out just how many soap batches I get from each pail of oil, in the amounts I usually order.

Hydrogenated Soybean Oil, 10 lbs: 10 batches

Palm Kernel Oil, 5 lbs: 12.5 batches

Coconut Oil, 5 lbs: 12.5 batches

Mango Butter, 1 lb: 10 batches

Shea Butter...is non-relevant right now, because I got a deal on a 5 lb pail a while back, and that gives me like 50 batches.

In the past rounds of ordering, I've gotten 20 pounds of soy oil (with a pound set aside for lip balms), to make 19 batches of soap. But I didn't do the math on the other oils, so I've run out of palm kernel oil and had to emergency order, but only ordered the 5 lb amount, when I still had 15 batches of soap to do. I ordered coconut oil and mango butter earlier, but that was before my shop totally sold out and I wasn't planning on making this much at once, so I've run out of mango butter and am running low on coconut oil.

I did the math today on what I need to finish out the 19 soaps and still have leftovers, as well as get more lip balm supplies (mainly tubes, some flavors). It came close to $200 before shipping and tax were figured. I have $100 coming from my mom, and I have about $40 in my Paypal, so I may need to adjust quantities to get what I need at a price I can afford.

Current Music: the ice cream truck is playing Jingle Bells, WTF?

I'm antsy. I have a fic idea brewing in my head, but the person I normally use as a sounding board hasn't been online since Sunday, and there was no answer on her phone. So, I don't know what's going on, and now it's more, "Hey, is she sick again?" than "Where is she I need to talk about my fic?" I don't want to jump the gun and call her mom to find out, because sometimes, that just makes her mom worry more when there isn't a reason for it. Unless there is a reason for it. But even then, I'd wait until I hadn't seen her online for a week before calling her mom. And even then, a lot of times, her mom doesn't know either.

(sigh) I need local friends. Easier to keep track of them.

Current Mood: frustrated
Current Music: Mythbusters

Somehow over the weekend, we got ants in our kitchen. Little tiny ants. So Monday morning, I told the office. Pest control is on Wednesdays (today). I have to hang around the apartment while they're here.

They're not here yet. I'm supposed to have my personal study at 12:30. If pest control isn't here by 12, I need to call Kim and see if she'd mind having it over here instead.

Thing is, though, I sprayed flea and tick spray under the sink and haven't seen any ants since.

In other news, we bought a new Tracfone yesterday so as to have phone contact while we're out of town at the distric convention this weekend. I used up 4 of the prepaid minutes trying to get the voice mail set up. Their online tech support sucks. All their "troubleshooting" thingie for the voicemail just takes you back to the "How to setup voicemail" stage. After finally getting through to a real live person there, he has me try what I've already tried FOUR TIMES. Finally he tells me the voicemail server is down and I should get a call, a text message or an e-mail when it's back up. Grrr. I want my four minutes back.

Current Mood: annoyed

Just something I need to get off my chest. This actually happened a few days ago, but it's still irking me a little.

You know that Dove commercial, the one with the slender redhead, the two pregnant women, the BBW, and the older woman, all in their underwear? Where the song in the background goes, "What if we loved our skin?" etc? Well, it was on the other day as our roommate came out of his room. He groaned and commented, "I hate this commercial. I don't want to see that!" I just looked at him funny. He went on to say, "There's only one on there even halfway worth looking at." He was referring to the slender redhead.

Now, Chris is no specimen himself. If you looked up "skinny white boy" in the dictionary, you'd see his picture. He's pencil-thin, pale, and bald as a chihuahua. I think he missed the point of the commercial. One, it's not aimed at men. It's aimed at women, making them appreciate their own bodies. Two, not every woman is model perfect. Look at me. I'm 5'6" and 235 pounds...and I was standing right next to him as he made that comment. Obviously, someone wanted to see me in my underwear, as I'm married and have a rather healthy sex life.

The last image on the commercial is a web address, www.campaignforrealbeauty.com. If you go to that website, you'll see that Dove is collecting pictures of real women that someone thinks is beautiful. The blurb says: Be part of the worldwide effort to show a new, wider definition of beauty by sharing a photo of a female you personally know and that you would consider beautiful. Dove's goal is to collect one million photos. Every photo collected will support a donation to the Dove Self-Esteem Fund.

I went to the website. I looked at the photos. And more often than not, the photos I saw were of women NOT model-thin. They were REAL women. And as the title of an indie film stated, real women have curves. We are not sticks with boobs. Dove's working to redefine beauty through self-esteem. And I'm all for that.

My husband thinks I'm beautiful. Yes, I'm dieting and exercising to lose weight, but it's to be healthy. Not to reinforce society's standards of beauty. Chris can go soak his head as he looks for a stick with boobs.

Current Mood: defiant

It totally sucks that two of the drugs listed as having possible interactions with this new pill are acetaminophen and ibuprofin. My back/neck ache has crawled up higher and blossomed into a headache that's screaming at me. And what do I have onhand to combat pain? Motrin (ibuprofin) and Excedrin (acetaminophen, aspirin and caffeine).

And I still have two loads of laundry to fold, iron and put away. Laundry is the suckiest bit of the housewife gig. It's a freakin' never-ending cycle. Why haven't they made self-cleaning clothes yet?

And another thing: getting up at eight, taking meds at nine, then crashing from 10 to 2 is NOT a productive day, and it doesn't help the fatigue at all. On the plus side, though, the nausea seems to be abating...I actually baked today. Cranberry muffins. They came out a little salty, though.

Current Mood: sucky

I don't know if it's the pills or what, but I've been having disturbing dreams the past few nights that all deal with persecution. One had stormtroopers, and last night's dealt with me trying to write/publish a scientific paper, but getting hijacked at every step by a TA who was supposed to be helping me. One part of the dream, I was supposed to bind about a hundred copies of this paper (more like a thesis), and she wouldn't show me how to work the binding machine. Another TA felt sorry for me and showed me how to work it. But the first TA found out about it, and pointed to a few edits that had been made. Told me that since I didn't date when the changes were made, I'd have to destroy all the bound copies. I just looked at her, stunned. According to her, because the changes weren't dated, I couldn't prove they were my work, and therefore I could get sued for plagarisim. And she knew that the other guy had helped me, and threatened to involve him in this, too. And then she started tearing up the copies, filled with glee that she'd managed to stop me again.

Then there was the dream that Matt and I went to BotCon this year. We met up with Ellen, and this guy Alex she knew from online. I didn't know they were more than friends, but Matt did. When I found that out, I was a little miffed she didn't tell me she was dating someone. There was also something dealing with fake teeth, sort of. For some reason, I'd put on tooth overlays, like acrylic nails, but they weren't holding up well, so I had to go into the bathroom and pop them off so I could brush off the residue. Also in the dream, I got to meet David Willis, who writes/draws Roomies, It's Walky!, and Shortpacked. But a main part of the dream was that Matt and I slept in, or lounged around in bed for a good portion of the morning, missing about half the day's worth of the convention, which didn't sit well with me, but all my teasing and cajoling wouldn't get him out of the bed earlier.

All in all, I think I'm glad I'm awake, and I hope I actually get some pleasant, restful dreams tonight.

Current Mood: irritated

Remember that ficlet I was so jazzed about writing (so jazzed that I'd finished anything) that I went ahead and posted it to ff.n? I had a "meh" review on it.

Now, I know I'm not the greatest thing since sliced bread, and I don't expect every review to be sycophantly praising me to the ends of the earth, but...."meh?" Not only "meh," but "you can do better," and "it's been done before." I think it's the last one that bothers me most. The fact that I did something I was proud of and "it's been done to death."

On the one hand, it upsets me to the point that I want to yank the ficlet from ff.n and hide it from the world for the rest of time. On the other hand...another point the reviewer brought up was that it seemed "out of character." The thing is, though, I'd had a few flashes of things before writing it that put it in character for me. And those are the things I'd said in the author's note I wasn't going to write, but the evil little demon who sits on my shoulder and whispers bad things in my ear (aka my angst demon muse) is rubbing his gnarled little hands in glee, whispering, "See, see! I'm not the only one who wants you to write out that story. You NEED to, in order to put the ficlet in perspective! SHOW Kira's pain at Tommy getting married! Show exactly how she was wronged! Oh, and add in that bit I told you about, about..." (here I cut him off, in case I DO write it, so all the secrets aren't given away here)

Like that little horndog of an angst demon needs more fodder to prey on.

I think what bothers me most is I sent it first to a friend I trusted to be honest about it, and as far as I could tell, she liked it. But an anonymous stranger thought it was "meh." So I wonder how honest she was being, or if she was just being nice.

And yes, there's always the possibility that the anonymous reviewer was just a jerk. But...

Like I said, it SHOULD'T bother me. But it does.

Current Mood: disappointed

Ever since graduating, I've had trouble remembering what time of year it is. For example, every year there comes a time when I go somewhere on a weekday and think, "Why the hell are there so many kids here? Shouldn't they be in school?"

Then it hits me. Oh, yeah. Summer vacation. Dangit.

It hit me today at the library, as I was trying to keep my ears from bleeding from all the high-pitched shrieks in the tiny building. Gyah. As I tried to keep from tripping over all the tiny, fast-moving bodies that seemed to think a library was the same thing as a gymnasium.

I miss the libraries of my youth, where it was QUIET. When did parents stop teaching kids that libraries are places to be quiet and well-behaved? That people were trying to read, to study. These same children probably run screaming through the sanctuary on Sundays, too. No, I forgot. Churches have kiddie-prisons. The parents can lock their kids away in the nursery, where only one or two adults get to go insane from all the screaming.

Sometimes I think all public buildings should have "adults-only" time. If pools can have "adult swim," why not an "adult browse" at the library? An hour or two a day where you can only come in if you're over eighteen.

I respect the population's right to have screaming, misbehaving little monsters. Why can't they respect my right to want nothing to do with them?

Current Mood: annoyed

I'm not one fond of clean. I like clutter, it makes me feel like I belong. But our roommate doesn't. He's starting to date again, and he wants a place he won't feel embarrased bringing people to.

I was planning on cleaning the kitchen tonight after I came home from getting cat food. Instead, I walked in and....he'd cleaned. The kitchen. The living room. The dining room (sort of). I kind of freaked, whispered a stunned "Thank you," and barricaded myself in the bedroom.

Matt had cleaned the living room yesterday, just testing my limits of comfort. But Chris...he just sort of removed EVERYTHING to the point where it looks like a hotel room, and I start to shake and have nervous breakdown.

If you've seen Benny and Joon, and remember the scene where Sam's cleaning and Joon freaks out? Kinda like that.

Clean is NOT NATURAL. Hospital-sanitary is not normal in a house with three people and three cats. It makes me queasy, makes me want to throw things. Makes me feel....like crying, like I don't belong there, that they're just tolerating me and soon they're going to break and ask me to leave, that they can't stand me there, that I'm useless, not doing anything to help, too much of a hassle.

This is my apartment, too. My name's on the lease. Why won't anyone listen to me?

Current Mood: uncomfortable

Today at 3pm eastern time, Scylla, the server I'm on in Star Wars Galaxies, gets taken down for upgrades related to the upcoming combat upgrade (cu). It'll be down until 9 am tomorrow.

My roommates used to be all for the cu, until they started reading more about it. Now it seems like SOE is just turning the game into "EQ2 in a galaxy far, far away." A lot of people are pissed. Including my category of player, the crafters. Leveling is now going to be based on combat skill. I'm a Master Artisan, Master Merchant, 3-3-3-2 Chef, Novice Dancer, 0-0-4-4 Entertainer, and a Novice Armorsmith (just picked that up last night). I have no combat professions. That means I'll be a level one character when the cu goes live. That means, when I go out to survey for resources and harvest resources, I'll be a sitting duck for any hostile critters out there in the wilderness.

Apparently SOE's responce to people's criticisms is, "Well, this means you'll have to group." Great. I mean, okay, so my husband's chara is a Master Rifleman, Master Scout, and a few other combat profs, so yeah, he could come with me when I go surveying. Except for one really big thing: I like to play when he's at work! Oh, and the fact that it's incredibly boring playing bodyguard for a surveyor. I present to you this proof. Scroll down to Gabe's comments ("The Wizow"). Sure, it's WOW and not SWG, but same idea.

So, I don't know if the cu's gonna be live when I log in tomorrow at 10, or if it's still going to be May 5th, but today? Today, I am grinding out armor to beat the band. Now if only I had the credits to train. Too bad both hubby and roommate are at work until after 3. Ah well.

Current Mood: contemplative

Yesterday, one of my few friends down here mananged to piss me off in under 5 minutes. She asked how my Tiesday was. I told her about it. Matt and I ran our errands, including returning the power supply we'd bought when we thought that was the problem with my computer. So we had $30 back. We stopped off at Latte Da for coffee (well, he actually got a frappe and I got a chai latte), then went to Lake Crabtree and walked a few trails, then went to Danny's Barbecue for a late lunch. I was raving about Danny's, how it's really good, and not too expensive ($6 for 4 oz of meat, 2 good-sized sides, and texas toast. We both left comfortably full). She kind of looked at me and said, "Yeah, I dunno, I hear $12, and think, that could buy groceries, or a video game, which lasts longer." So in that sentence, I started feeling horribly guilty for having a nice day out with my husband. She then went on, critizing our decisions to go to Goodberry's for frozen custard when we have a buy one get one free coupon instead of buying "cheap" ice cream at WalMart. And that sort of pissed me off. I went on to tell her that it's not like we're going to Goodbery's every day, spending $15 at a time. At most, we've spent $4. "Oh, but that could buy a whole half gallon of Blue Bunny." I. DON'T. LIKE. BLUE. BUNNY.
I am an ice cream snob. Ever since discovering "premium" ice cream, I can't really enjoy the grainy, air-filled "cheap" ice cream that's $2 a half gallon. Premium ice cream is just so much better. And the frozen custard at Goodberry's? Dreamy. Even their no-sugar added custard is creamy and rich. So add that to the small list of splenda-sweetened items I like (lite custard and 7-Up Plus...oooh, sounds like a float to me!).
So anyway, she pissed me off. I had to explain to her, AGAIN, that I don't give a flying fuck about PS2s and games for said machines.
I got home, and Matt called from work. I ranted at him a little bit, and he calmed me down. Told me to never let myself feel put down by her, because he makes a third of what her husband makes, yet we can afford to go out to eat and they can't. So there's something of a money management problem there.
I love my husband. (big hugs) I just wish now he could find a job he's happy at. Car sales are slow, and he hates it. I have a lead I'm following today for myself. Won't be anywhere near enough for him to be able to stop working, but it will give us entertainment money.

Current Mood: annoyed

This is driving me nuts. A few years ago, I found a Kim Possible fanfic/fanart that was a Kim-Ron pairing. All I remember about it was Ron had a beard and was a reporter. Now, after watching "So The Drama," I can stomach a Kim-Ron pairing, and I want to find this fic again. But can I? Oh, no. All my searches on Google are coming up empty. No pics of a bearded Ron holding Kim. No fanfics mentioning Ron's beard.

So if anyone, ANYONE, knows what fic I'm thinking of, could you PLEASE send me a link? I'll be forever grateful.

Current Mood: frustrated
Current Music: "Call Me, Beep Me"

Well, we were both convinced the Memorial started at 7:30. We were both wrong. It started at 7, so we missed about half an hour of the service. Then, we were going to meet people at our place and follow them to where the gathering was. We got lost. Matt decided to take surface roads instead of freeway, so we went way out of our way. Still got there before the couple we were following, though.

We got to the house where the gathering was. I was still failry excited about this. Then we went inside.

Oh, no. Waaay too many people, waaaaay too loud, too much crowd noise. I started to get queasy and had to almost run outside, back to the Jeep.

As I sat there, looking up at the full moon and stars, I thought about how easy it would be to slip back into old routines, to beseech the goddess rather than praying to Jehovah for strength. I made a conscious effort to direct my prayers to Jehovah, instead.

A lot of times, I feel like I'm letting Matt down because of my dislike of crowds. It's like, we can't go to parties because I freak out and have to leave. I don't know what it is, but I'm not comfortable around more than 10 people. Tuesday night book study hurts me, because it's about 20 people in a tiny room. I prefer Saturday morning book study because it's at the Kingdom Hall, and therefore people can spread out a little more.

Some days I just want to stay inside my nice safe apartment. Sigh.

Current Mood: uncomfortable

Quitting yesterday sort of wrecked my diet. Depression will do that to a girl. Too many chocolate-covered hazelnuts. The rest of which hubby didn't hide before going to work. So that means they'll be gone when he gets home. But, I'm not going to let it derail me for good. Now I have time to exercise again.

But on the up side, I'm not pregnant.

Current Mood: crappy

I quit my job today. It was only my third day there. I feel guilty, because we sort of need the paycheck, because the company was willing to work with my availability, and because even though I failed the questionnaire, I was hired anyway. I feel like I let a lot of people down.

But on the other hand, I wasn't happy there. Not just "Oh, I don't want to go to work today" not happy, but breaking down crying in the bathroom, getting sick not happy. From the moment I entered the store this morning, all I could think about was how much I didn't want to be there, how much I hated retail, how lousy I was at it, and I even admitted to the GM that I was terrified of actually going on the floor and selling. I just wanted to leave. At one point, I was thinking, "I would rather be doing food service than this." That's how bad it was.

Part of the problem is that, I was retail for four years after graduating college. I hated every minute, but copy center work was sort of close to what I was degreed in, so I could live with it. I know nothing about menswear. And you know what? I really don't want to know more about it than what I need to tell my husband he looks good. I don't want to deal with picky, difficult customers. I don't want to measure men, have my hands on their waitbands and rears to make sure their pants fit right. I don't want to "upsell." I HATE people, hate selling, and I'd much rather be a housewife.

And I think I'm going to start crying again if I keep thinking about it, so I'm going to stop, and maybe go take a nap.

Current Mood: guilty

Okay, so after my one promising night, I haven't written anymore. Bleargh.

And I'm now sort-of a housewife. IE, husband is working, I'm not. Which means he expects me to be trying to keep the house neat. I've tried explaining to him that such things do not come naturally to me. It doesn't occur to me to clean. I've had dishes sit waiting to be washed so long that they've formed their own ecosystems. But I'm married now. And husband isn't as fond of disorganization and clutter as I am. So I have to try to remember to clean, to put things away, to do something other than play on the computer all day, and while working out is a good thing, I can't use that as an excuse for why I didn't clean.

I hate cleaning. Clean houses make me nervous. I NEED clutter to feel like I belong there.

Plus since he's working on Saturdays now, I have to go to book study by myself. I'm so tempted to skip it. I don't want to go by myself. It might be easier to slip out unnoticed, though. I don't like talking to people. Eh, I have to go out anyway to get milk and eggs. (sigh)

Current Mood: frustrated

Every so often, my computer shuts itself down, doing a good imitation of a British police siren. We've replaced the power supply, done some other work on the box, and still it does that. It did it last night while I was playing Sims2, just as two of my girls were going into labor. :-P

So does anyone know why my computer shuts off and screams at me, and what to do about it?

Current Mood: annoyed

Today I just felt craptacular all day. Got at least some things done in the spare room, but until we get jobs and can get the bedframe in there rebuilt (a super-single waterbed frame just doesn't quite fit a double spring mattress), there's not much else I can do. I can't put out too many more of my dolls, because a) most of my shelves (I have three bookcases I bought specifically for doll display) have been commandeered by my husband for books and dvds, and b) I can't put anything on the lower three-to-five feet of the cases because those are in child-grabbing range. So, my ten boxes of dolls and doll accessories/furniture stay boxed up.

Then, I was supposed to go to meeting tonight (for those of you who don't know, I'm studying with the Jehovah's Witnesses). I felt like crap, so no go. Didn't want to stay here, either, so I got my shit together and went down to the gym. Set the tv to CSI, got on the bike, started pedaling. No one else was there. It was perfect. Then, not even five minutes there, someone else showed up. Okay, no big. She was on the treadmill, wasn't giving me no never-mind, okay. I can deal with this. Ten minutes after that, a frickin FAMILY shows up, with a three-year-old who likes to play on the treadmill. No frickin way. I don't care for kids, and when I'm in a crappy mood, I don't want to be around them. So, I finished up the pattern on the bike. By then, treadmill girl was onto some of the weight training machines. I found the pec fly machine, did a few reps, then had to leave. Just too many people in too small a space.

Thought about going for a walk, but didn't really want to. Thought about visiting my other friends in the complex, but they too have children, and I've seen enough of their kids this week. So, back to the apartment, where I tried my recipe for relaxation:

-candles
-bubble bath
-water so hot I almost can't sit in it
-ice water to drink
-dim lights
-loud music. Tonight, Evanescence

Soaked for nearly the whole cd, then rinsed off. Still feeling craptacular, but at least I got some exercise and got clean.

Current Mood: cranky
Current Music: "Going Under" and everything else on that disc

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It shouldn't bother me, but...
Oh yeah, it's June...
The trouble with roommates
SWG Combat Upgrade
And pissiness ensued
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Entries tagged with frustration

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Math is my enemy

Frustration

Conflict

Grr

Suckiness

Dreams

It shouldn't bother me, but...

Oh yeah, it's June...

The trouble with roommates

SWG Combat Upgrade

And pissiness ensued

Kim Possible

Last night...

Sigh

Guilt and Freedom

Stuff

Computer Woes

Blargh